What is Mentoring

In the simplest terms, mentoring is a one-to-one relationship between an experienced (mentor) and a less experienced (mentee) person. A mentor helps the mentee gain knowledge and develop the required skills and attitude to achieve the mutually agreed goals.

The term “mentor” is believed to be derived from Homer’s epic poem, Odyssey, a fictional character. It also shares roots with the Sanskrit word “मन्तृ” (mantṛ́), with the literal meaning “an advisor, counselor, or wise man.”

What is IMC's Definition of Mentoring

IMC defines mentoring as “a collaborative, dialogic, and reflective learning relationship with mutual learning agreements and shared responsibilities to facilitate the personal and professional development of the individual or teams, to create awareness, increase choices, and develop capabilities.”

While a credentialed mentor is skilled at mentoring and also possess knowledge of their domain so that they can satisfy the informational need of the mentee, however refrain from suggesting personal life issues.

So, Really, What IS Mentoring?

Today, mentoring has adopted a broader application, serving different purposes. For instance, mentoring can also help in onboarding, business setup, and cross-generational or cross-team understanding, apart from knowledge or skill sharing. Mentoring is now a highly dynamic profession that caters to different forms. Hence, mentorship guidelines serve as the ground for establishing clear purpose, focus, and goals for both mentor and mentee.

Let’s envision what is actually mentoring in our everyday lives:

A young man, Alex, recently moved to a new neighborhood. Keeping the garage door open, he was trying to fix a broken wooden shelf. Reed, the next-door neighbor, saw him struggling with tools and offered to help. Over a couple of days, Reed helped Alex pick the right tools and even taught him a few techniques to craft and assemble the shelf. From explaining a few nuances of woodworking to giving Alex hands-on experience, Reed mentored Alex to achieve his goal, i.e., repairing the rack. Later on, Alex discovered that Reed was a retired carpenter.

Though this is an informal mentorship, the scenario is relevant to our everyday situations. You may find yourself in similar circumstances and want to learn something actionable quickly for personal or professional growth. However, this might not give you the sense of partnering with a mentor immediately.

Is Mentoring Different From Coaching?

Being the leading authority in the mentoring industry for almost a decade, we affirm that mentoring is not coaching, counseling, or training. Mentoring can be synced with these professions to achieve the desired results.

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Mentoring is client-led, like coaching, but the trainer sets the agenda in training. The nature of mentoring is experiential, whereas coaching is more inquiry-based. The mentee and mentor both share ownership of the agenda, whereas in coaching, the ownership is with the client. These are some of the basic differences between mentoring and coaching.

Mentoring is a sweet spot between coaching and training.

To sum it up, a coach may be someone other than an expert. And works as your thinking partner. In both relationships, you are accountable for your goals.

When Should You Consider Mentoring?

So now that you have understood “what is mentoring,” you might be wondering “when” to consider mentoring. Let’s first understand “what” and “how” you can decide to be a mentee.

We often use coach and teacher words interchangeably with a mentor as this helps them envision a complete picture of their requirements.

Being as specific as possible about your desired outcomes takes you towards measuring your goals. For instance, you might want to learn to play guitar. This requirement is predefined by you, which becomes your goal. The result can be varied – you learned or still progressing – that are your outcomes. Hence, it’s crucial to keep your goals time-bound. If you know the basics of guitar playing, you need a mentor to enhance your skills and knowledge. On the contrary, you need a trainer or teacher if you want to start as a newbie.

Let’s rephrase the question: When is the right time for you to consider mentoring?

Mentoring is not limited to a specific career or life stage; it can be considered an ongoing process. You may have multiple mentors simultaneously, each addressing different needs. The right time to consider mentoring is when you determine a need for guidance, learning, and support to achieve your goals more efficiently and effectively. Some common questions to help you get started:

What challenges am I facing that can be overcome with mentoring?
What achievable goals can I set for myself and my mentor?
Do I have the time and commitment to engage in mentorship?
Am I open to feedback and learning? Am I ready to take accountability for my actions and goals?
How will I measure the success of my mentoring relationship?

Answering these questions may help you assess your keenness and motivation for mentoring and guide you in structuring a successful mentoring relationship.

Bottomline

Seeking mentoring is the key to realizing your full potential, overcoming obstacles, and driving meaningful growth. IMC’s definition of mentoring goes beyond just the mentoring process; it is a dynamic and transforming journey toward personal and professional development.

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Mentoring is defined as a collaborative, reflective collaboration based on mutual learning agreements and responsibilities. Individuals can effectively attain their goals with mentoring, whether they are related to skill enhancement, job advancement, or personal development through mentoring. Unlike training, mentoring adds value by establishing an environment that encourages ongoing learning and growth. IMC is here to help you succeed on your journey in mentoring.

Are you interested in learning more about mentoring? Contact us, and we will answer your questions.